In 1990, in a quaint church on Spring Street, Toowoomba, Eric stumbled upon a parish newsletter that changed his life forever.
A call for a family to provide emergency foster care for a blind and disabled toddler struck a chord deep within him. Turning to his wife, he declared, “I feel we’ve got to take this little girl.”
Today, as he reflects on the life of 36-year-old Tanya, the bond they share is profoundly moving. Eric and his wife, already parents to two sons aged 17 and 20, felt an irresistible pull to help a child in need, even if it meant starting anew.
After navigating the necessary processes, they welcomed two-year-old Tanya to their home with nothing but a small bag of clothes.
Born with a rare congenital disorder that caused visual and intellectual impairments, Tanya’s journey had been challenging from the start.
“Her family could not meet her needs, and it was clear she required a home where she would be cared for,” Eric said.
As Eric now nears his eighties, he has faced the heartbreaking reality that he and his wife, Estelle, would soon be unable to provide Tanya with the care she deserves.
With Tanya already attending Multicap’s short term accommodation three days a week, her support team encouraged Eric to seek full-time support. He began the search for a Multicap supported independent living home that would be a good fit for Tanya.
To his relief, he found a place where the support team knew her well— understanding her personality, preferences, and needs—making the transition from respite to full-time care far less daunting.
Since moving into her home, Tanya has flourished, developing a close friendship with another resident and Eric could not be happier for his daughter.
“This has been the best thing for Tanya, even though we miss her dearly. She is such an easy-going, gentle soul, and Multicap’s team are wonderful.”
Every weekend, Eric continues to take Tanya to church, a cherished tradition that deepens their bond.
Eric has a heartfelt message for parents considering supported independent living for their children.
“It’s a significant transition, but it doesn’t reflect your love as a parent. You’re doing what’s best for your child, and your relationship with them remains strong. They will always know how much you love them.”
To learn more about Multicap’s Supported Independent Living visit our website.